I've noticed that so many dont bother to read what you say or try to learn about the person at all. Looks do matter and so does body type..... I am a fitness trainer..so b honest about it...if u have no picture, I wont respond to any message sent to me.
just a few of my thoughts...
So many people say what they think you want to hear. I dont understand why they cant say what is really in their heart. If you put on a false front, there is no way it wont be seen thru eventually and which will lead to a loss. It might just be a loss of time, but may be even a broken heart. Have enough confidence to be who and what you say you are. Everyone seems to write the same thing on here but doesnt really mean it.
I seem to always be laughing..
go have some fun..
smile...
lighten up on yourself..
btw..I have 2 tatts so if that is something that bothers you..well...I'm not the "one" for you.
About Me
I'm a very upbeat and optimistic person. Always very good to the man I love when I have found him. I have a great sense of humor.. I used to own my own petshop and grooming salon but had to sell when I got divorced...
I am looking for a LTR based on trust, loyalty, and friendship I want someone who feels the same way. . It's so hard to find the right relationship, simple things arent so simple it seems. Kindness and compassion, honesty and integrity, loyalty and faithfulness. (ummm sounds like I am describing my dog ) seriously, these are things that seem to be missing from so many these days. A sense of humor is a must, because you have to be able to laugh at life. Sometimes we find ourselves in positions that are not where we planned or hoped to be and sometimes it is the laughter that gets us through. But mostly, I think it is Love that gets us through life. It is what I want and what I am searching for. I have so much love to give the right person. I would like to be with someone who loves to live, loves to love. someone who is a happy person. I am always there to help you but I cant "fix" you. I will love you and give all of me to you and only you. I want to be with a man that only wants and needs one woman.
I am looking for:
Having similar interests is good but not always necessary. Learning new things is what life is about. Caring, romantic, strong as in not wishy-washy, knows what he wants but can be flexible adventurous, spontaneous, good sense of humor.
Personality and Interests
My personality is best described as:
Adventurous/Wild/Spontaneous, Easygoing/Flexible/Open-Minded, Eccentric, Friendly/Kind, Humorous/Witty, Sensitive/Nurturing/Loving, Outgoing, Romantic, Stubborn
In my free time, I enjoy:
Antiquing, Cooking/Barbecuing, Dining Out, Entertaining, Gardening, Hanging Out with Friends, Home Improvement/Decorating, Intimate Conversations, Motorcycling, People Watching, Photography, Pool/Billiards/Darts, Taking Long Walks, Video Games/Online Games, Movies/TV, Wine Tasting
In my free time, I like to:
Amusement Parks, Antique Stores/Flea Markets/Garage Sales, Art Galleries, In Bars/In Nightclubs, Beach, Bookstores, Coffee Houses, Comedy Clubs, Live Theater, Movies, Museums, Parks, Restaurants, Shopping Malls
My favorite physical activities:
Bowling, Dancing, Hiking/Walking, Horseback Riding, Hunting/Fishing, Ice Skating, Snorkeling/Scuba Diving, Swimming/Diving/Water Polo
My favorite food(s):
American, Barbecue, Deli, Italian, Seafood
My favorite music:
Alternative, Classic Rock n' Roll, Classical, Dance/Electronica, Reggae
I like to read:
Fiction
My perfect first date:
something easy with no pressure so we can each be ourselves. A quiet bar for a drink and conversation is a good start, or a small restaurant that is dimly lit.
My ideal relationship:
monogamy, trust,doing things together, laughter, and no drama or at least a little as possible. Wanting to still hold hands when we're 80.
My past relationships:
that every relationship is different. no one is perfect (cept me)grin and that it takes learning about each other's desires and dreams to make it work. communication is the key.
and yes, I copied some of this from another site I was on...lol
my likes are:
Halloween dragons motorcycles
working out bowling pool
darts swimming people watching
flea markets antiquing fine wine
brunches traveling scuba diving
hockey games all animals
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